Never in the history of the world have there been more ways to communicate. We have telephones, cell phones, email, Twitter, Facebook, Skype, and many other ways to keep in touch with one another. Yet with all the various ways to keep in touch it seems there is some confusion on how a person; especially a child of God should use this technology. Franklin D Roosevelt penned in his notes “Today we have learned the agony of war that great power involved great responsibility.” This quote is from a speech that FDR was going to deliver at the Jefferson Day Dinner in 1945; he died the day before. (Most of you thought this quote was from Uncle Ben via Stan Lee from Spiderman didn’t you!) Actually Jesus said it first when he stated in the parables, “Everyone to whom much was given, of him much will be required, and from him to whom they entrusted much, they will demand the more.” (Luke 12:48).
Social media use has become so pervasive in the lives of American teens that having a presence on a social network site is almost synonymous with being online. Fully 95% of all teens ages 12-17 are now online and 80% of those online teens are users of social media sites. Many log on daily to their social network pages and these have become spaces where much of the social activity of teen life is echoed and amplified—in both good and bad ways.
NEUTRAL
Depending on who you talk to you will get a wide array of opinions in regards to social media being a good thing or a bad thing. The same could be said about firearms, drugs, etc. You see a firearm in the hands of a police officer is a good thing. A firearm in the hands of a robber is obviously a bad thing. Drugs in the hands of your doctor can help you get well. Drugs in the hands of a drug distributor is bad. I firmly believe the same is true with social media. It all depends on how we choose to use it!
NEGATIVE
However; 90% of teens reported they have experienced someone being mean or cruel to another person on a social network site. 15% stated they have personally been the target of such cruelty. From time to time we have all probably witnessed some negative behaviors like gossip/slander, jealousy, bullying, sites depicting who is hot and who is not, apathy, lack of time management, posting positive comments about ungodly television shows or movies, arguments over politics and sports just to name a few. Far too often these seems to be no “policing” of what people do and say making some of our experiences negative in nature. We are commanded, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (Ephesians 4:29)
POSITIVE
A recent survey revealed that most American teens who use social media say people are mostly kind to one another on social network sites. Overall, 69% of social media-using teens think that peers are mostly kind to each other on social network sites.
Jesus calls us to live in the world – in the culture that we are born into – to be difference makers for the cause of Christ (Matthew 5:13-16). We need to show non-Christians, with all their stereotypes and negative experiences of Christ, what Christianity really is. I believe that Twitter and Facebook are perfect media for this. Christians can use social media to show the rest of the world what we’re really about. Or, we can perpetuate the stereotypes we’re fighting against. In the book of Revelation we find “I know your works: you are neither cold nor hot. Would that you were either cold or hot! So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth” (Rev. 3:15-16).
So you may be wondering, “How can I use Facebook and Twitter for the glory of God?” I would suggest you talk positively about other people and especially the church. It is always encouraging to see a young person post Scriptures and even expound a little bit as to why you enjoy that Scripture so much. I personally have been resolved to take the time to “inbox” notes of encouragement to other people. It is a great way to post/share articles which cover a wide array of issues and topics relating to one’s spiritual well-being. I have no doubt there are so many other ways to use it for the glory of God.
Pure Hearts/Pure Minds
I have no clue where you are in your walk with God. I do not know the struggles you are currently enduring. I do know that God loves you and wants you to live a life of holiness. Holiness is being, “set apart from the world.” We are called to live lives of holiness (1 Peter 1:15). In order to be holy we need to strongly consider what we think about by transforming our minds (Romans 12:1-2). We must fill our minds with those things which are right (Luke 8:35), bring about life and peace (Romans 8:6), and lead to a life of obedience (Hebrews 8:10). We must also guard our hearts because whatever we take in, will come out (Proverbs 4:23). Jesus stated, “But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander (Matthew 15:18-19). Also note Jesus’ words in Luke 6:45, “The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks”.
May we always focus and portray those things which are good within our lives (Phil. 4:8-9). May God continually bless you richly!





